Facebook
has become the Google of social networks. If you're not updating your
status right now, chances are that you are uploading photos or taking
some sort of odd quiz. We post tons of intimate details about our lives
that we normally wouldn't share with anyone. We think that as long as we
make sure our privacy settings are set correctly that we are safe and
snug within our circle of friends.
The problem is that we never know who's really looking at our information. Our friend's account could have been hacked when they installed some rogue application, or their creepy uncle might be using their account because they forgot to log out. For the sake of the safety of you and your family, there is some information that you should never post on Facebook.
The problem is that we never know who's really looking at our information. Our friend's account could have been hacked when they installed some rogue application, or their creepy uncle might be using their account because they forgot to log out. For the sake of the safety of you and your family, there is some information that you should never post on Facebook.
@. You or Your Family's Full Birth Dates -----
We all
love getting “happy birthdays” from our friends on our Facebook wall.
It makes us feel all warm inside knowing that people remembered and
cared enough to write us a short note on our special day. The problem is
when you list your birthday you are providing identity thieves with one
of the 3 or 4 pieces of personal information that is needed to steal
your identity. It’s best to not list the date at all, but if you must,
at least leave out the year. Your real friends should know this info
anyway.
@. Your Relationship Status-----
Whether
you are in a relationship or not, it may be best not to make it public
knowledge. Stalkers would love to know that you just became newly
single. If you change your status to "single" it gives them the green
light they were looking for to resume stalking now that you're back on
the market. It also lets them know that you might be home alone since
your significant other is no longer around. Your best bet is to just
leave this blank on your profile.
@. Your Current Location-----
There are a
lot of people who love the location tagging feature on Facebook that
allows them to let people know where they are 24/7. The problem is that
you have just told everyone that you're on vacation (and not at your
house). If you add how long your trip is then thieves know exactly how
much time they have to rob you. My advice is not to provide your
location at all. You can always upload your vacation pictures when you
get home or text your friends to let them know how jealous they should
be that you're sipping an umbrella drink while they toil away at work.
@. The Fact That You Are Home Alone-----
It is
extremely important that parents make sure their children never put the
fact that they are home alone in their status. Again, you wouldn’t walk
into a room of strangers and tell them you are going to be all alone at
your house so don’t do it on Facebook either.
We may
think that only our friends have access to our status, but we really
have no idea who is reading it. Your friend may have had their account
hacked or someone could be reading over their shoulder at the library.
The best rule of thumb is not to put anything in your profile or status
that you wouldn’t want a stranger to know. You may have the most
stringent privacy settings possible, but if your friend’s account gets
compromised than those settings go out the window.
@. Pictures of Your Kids Tagged With Their Names-----
We
love our kids. We would do anything to keep them safe, but most people
post hundreds of tagged pictures and videos of their kids to Facebook
without even giving it a second thought. We even go so far as to replace
our profile pictures with that of our children.Probably
9 out of 10 parents posted their child’s full name, and exact date and
time of birth while they were still in the hospital after delivery. We
post pictures of our kids and tag them and their friends, siblings, and
other relatives. This kind of information could be used by predators to
lure your child. They could use your child’s name and the names of their
relatives and friends to build trust and convince them that they are
not really a stranger because they know detailed information that allows
them to build a rapport with your child.If
you must post pictures of your children then you should at least remove
personally identifying information such as their full names and birth
dates. Untag them in pictures. Your real friends know their names
anyway.I
would be a hypocrite if I said that I have completely removed all
tagged pictures of my kids on facebook. It is a daunting task given the
amount of pictures that we take as proud parents, but I have started on
it and I'll do a little bit each day until it's finished.Lastly,
think twice before you tag pictures of the children of friends and
relatives. They might not want you tagging their kids for the reasons
mentioned above. You can send them a link to the pictures and they can
tag themselves in place of their children if they want to.
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